All you beautiful women, about to turn 20 and in their 20’s, out there hope you are all doing great! Putting up a tough face and being bold, confident, independent, self-dependent, and some of us still in search of ourselves in this roller coaster world. Just don’t know where and how did the time fly by. Still can’t seem to remember that transition period, from being an innocent, carefree girl to being a woman. Did it exist or was it just a snap?
The day the struggle to be different yet trying to fit in what society thinks is right became real!
Juggling between the thoughts of what’s appropriate to wear , how to behave like , say the right things and that girl we always wanted to be when we were younger and somewhere secretly we still want to be. The girl who is passionate, free spirited, who speaks her mind, follows her heart till the end and loves herself and who is an inspiration for others. In short to be a “Wonder Woman” of her kind and not just another pretty girl!
But there is no question of how to become one, but to know that we all are “Wonder Woman” , since the day we came into this world. All we need is to embrace this truth and take every new step ahead with belief in ourselves. Now we’ve all heard this so many times that “We all are different” and that’s just not the cases with our faces looking different. It’s about every thing we constitute of , our body, thoughts, choices, perceptions, beliefs and our way of looking at everything around us. Then how can you try to chain yourself to a set of ways that other people have made and think are right.
So what if some of us don’t like pink?
So what some of us love dancing only on bollywood songs?
So what sometimes we use curse words?
So what some of us can’t walk in heels?
So what some of us don’t like dressing up?
So what we like video games?
So what some of us don’t like gossiping?
So what some of us like science more than fashion?
So what we have more guy friends ?
So what some of us like war movies over romantic ones?
( Here I have my personality being shown through my clothes. A leather biker jacket, boots, ray bans, – that’s half of me not giving a damn . The other half is a girl who loves jewelry, and skirts and dressing up depending on my mood . And I love watching movies especially bollywood , let it be old or new( my t-shirt says it all)!! )
That’s who I am
I know that all I said is easier said than done. But then again it all depends on what’s more important for us as an individual and being true to ourselves about it. No one can help you figure it out but you!
And if finally if you are following your own path , and some does doubt you just say
” Sorry I broke rules, I was just busy following my intuitions ” 😉
Just remember that YOU ARE PERFECT JUST THE WAY YOU ARE .
That’s all for today. Hope you guys have loads of and an amazing weekend.Just love yourself and keep rocking. If you guys have anything to say , write it in the comments section below. I LOVE reading your comments. Also, don’t forget to follow me on Instagram, @thegypsysoul_shruti.